/Judaism doesn't preach any of those things that you've said./
Many of those things are openly preached in Israel. Google: "Ovadia
Yosef, goyim" That's no marginal figure. Google: "Ovadia Yosef,
Secular/Christianized Jews may forget where the ethnic identity that
they willfully continue to socially construct came from but Orthodox
factions constructing "Jews" (based on child abuse and trauma like a
gang/tribe initiation, by the way) to this day haven't forgotten it all.
And it's the Orthodox that are having more children. So the
"progressively" Judaic future is going to go backward... back to the
criminal ethnic cult of supremacy that birthed "Jews", a cult that
secular or "atheist" Jews cover for and defend. Perhaps due to their
gang/tribe initiations and the way they're traumatized by Holocaust
stories about how the Goyim/Monsters made Jews into soap and lampshades.
Look at yourself, you're considering marrying into that sort of mess and
you're already covering for it based on ignorance. You didn't bother
to see if anything is true. If rabbis actually do suck the blood off the
penis of a child in one of their forms of gang/tribe initiation through
trauma. You just automatically think that's an "antisemitic" blood
libel, similar to the idea that Jews are seeking global supremacy.
(Another "antisemitic" conspiracy theory). But Google: "Rabbis,
herpes." How did those babies get herpes, a "blood libel"?
The best solution would be for people that have been abused as
children by a criminal cult and socially constructed as "Jews" to reject
and abolish that identity. They should not continue to defend it.
You're actually going to incorporate yourself and possibly your
descendants in that?